Why Do I Need a Church Family?

What is the Church?

As a child, I learned this little rhyme along with hand motions that went: “Here’s the church, Here’s the steeple. Open the doors and here’s all the people.” It used to be that you could have a church worship service and all the people would show up. However, today the poem would be more accurately said this way: “Here’s the church, Here’s the steeple. Open the doors and where are the people?”

But what if: the local church really is the best thing going and the hope for the world? Many people misunderstand what the church is supposed to be both inside and outside the church. This keeps them from experiencing the fullness of its potential in their lives.

When you love people, you can't keep people away from a church like that. You would have to lock the doors to keep people away when they know that you love them. Click To Tweet
The Church is a Body.
The church is a Body, not a business or a building. The Body of Christ is living, breathing, active, and growing. Click To Tweet

So it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other. Romans 12:5

In the New Testament, there’s no such thing as a believer who doesn’t belong in the body.

The Church is a House.

Don’t you realize that all of you together are the house of God, and that the Spirit of God lives among you in his house? 1 Corinthians 3:16 (TLB)

The Church is a Family.

God places the lonely in families; Psalm 68:6

Being a part of a church is not about having your name on the role. It’s having a role to play in God’s story of life-change. Click To Tweet

And now this word to all of you: You should be like one big happy family, full of sympathy toward each other, loving one another with tender hearts and humble minds. 1 Peter 3:8 (TLB)

The Church is a Family Where…

Jesus gave us our marching orders in the Great Commission:

Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. 20 Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age. Matthew 28:19-20

We exist to reach people with the life-changing power of Jesus!

Everyone is Invited.
The church exists for the sake of those who aren’t here yet. Click To Tweet
Everyone is Included.

All of you together are Christ’s body, and each of you is a part of it. 1 Corinthians 12:27

Welcome people into your home and don’t grumble about it. 1 Peter 4:9 (CEV)

Every weekend, the church is a family expecting guests. Click To Tweet
Everyone is Important.

In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary. 1 Corinthians 12:22

Everyone is Invested.

There is a huge ROI in your home. The same is true for the House of God. You invest in the House through your time, treasure, and talents. What kind of equity do you have in the house? What kind of equity do you have in the local church?

Everyone is Involved.

Being a part of the Body, the House, and the Family of God is not a spectator sport.

Cole Phillips

I'm a Connector, linking people with God and with others to experience the kind of life God has planned for them. I am the founding and Lead Pastor of THE CONNECTION CHURCH in Buda, Texas. I previously served in churches around the state as youth pastor and as pastor before moving to Kyle in the Spring of 2004. I love to lead people to connect with God and those around them and thrive on changed lives. I earned a doctorate in missions and evangelism with an emphasis on church growth. My heart beats for helping people connect with God and connect with others in an authentic community of faith. I love listening to and making music. I also enjoy hanging out with my family. Pam and I have been married since 1991 and we have two daughters, Makenzie and Bethanie. We are planting our lives in Hays County and allowing God to build a great church through us.